You love three colours, so you use all three equally, and the room feels slightly restless without anyone being able to say why. Decorators have a simple fix for that: give the colours unequal jobs. It is called the 60-30-10 rule, and it is one of the easiest ways to make a mixed-up room feel settled.
Pick three colours and give them shares of what you see in the room. It is a widely used rule of thumb among decorators, not a law, and nobody owns it.
Floors, ceilings, wood and the TV are usually treated as neutral and left out of the count.
This little living room has nine things you can recolour. Pick a palette, then tap an item (or its button underneath) to cycle it between main, support and accent. The bars show roughly how much of the room each colour covers.
Designers usually explain it in terms of the eye. A room with one clear leader gives your eye a place to rest. A second colour adds depth so the room doesn't look flat. A small, stronger colour gives you a focal point: because there is only a little of it, it stands out. When three colours each take a third, nothing leads and nothing rests.
You don't have to buy anything to apply it. Start by looking, not shopping.
It is a starting point, so bend it. A dark main colour on the walls is a lovely cosy look, and so is a room that is nearly all one soft colour with texture doing the work, like linen, wool and wood. Patterns count as more than one colour, so a busy rug may need quieter neighbours. If your things already look good together, leave them. And if a room only has two colours, that is already calm.
If you do buy something new for the room, measure first: the wall or space it will go in, the doorways and stairs it must pass through, and the width of the window for curtains. A colour you love in a shop looks different at home, so hold a swatch or a fabric sample up in your own light before you commit.